About Adoption

What Does an Adoptive Parent Look Like?

A lot like you.

Foster and adoptive parents are a lot like you, someone who is caring, physically, mentally and emotionally capable of caring for a child and willing to participate in our training.

Research demonstrates that most children who are adopted thrive. With training and support, the most ordinary people have grown into their roles as adoptive parents with amazing results. These parents clearly show that adoption is one path to the love, stability, and nurturing all children need.

Adoption is a lifelong, life-changing journey for all members of the adoption triad: birth parents, adopted people, and adoptive parents. Adoption, the legal transfer of parental rights from one parent to another, provides children with love, nurturance, and stability and promotes their well-being and their opportunity to become healthy, productive adults.

Adoption is essential for the permanency of many children, including:

  • Children and youth in foster care who will not be reunited with their birth parents. In many cases these children are adopted by other birth relatives.
  • Other U.S. infants and children whose birth parents make adoption plans for them. Birth mothers or fathers may or may not have ongoing contact with the adoptive family or child.
  • Children in other countries who need families. In intercountry adoptions, little or no information may be known about a child’s birth family at the time of adoption.

Public agencies place foster children for adoption. Private agencies sometimes contract with the public child welfare agency to place foster children; they also may place U.S. infants, or children from other countries. In some States, facilitators (attorneys, physicians, or other intermediaries) may coordinate adoptions without an agency’s involvement.

For additional information, visit the Getting Started page, contact us or visit ChildWelfare.gov.